Your life is a treasure.
Your loved ones deserve a map.

I bought an “affairs in order” product as a gift. Then never used it.

Christmas 2023, I bought a Next Of Kin Box (Nokbox) and told my kids that it was part of their gifts. I was going to organize my documents so they wouldn’t have to, in case something happened to us.

And then did absolutely nothing with it.

→ In February my father-in-law died.

→ In April my Mom died.

And in May, my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer.
Yes, the bad kind.

Bet you’re thinking I filled it out then…
Still nope.

It took all the way until August when we were making end-of-life decisions before we pulled his intubation tube.

And it occurred to me that I didn't even know the password to his laptop. 

Sounds dumb and callous, but besides all the intense fear that I was going to lose him, I was also afraid of how unprepared we were. 

So between them bringing him out of sedation and pulling the tube, between the “I love you’s”, I had to ask him really, really practical questions like “what’s your password?” and “should I sell the house?”


Happily he lived and we started filling out our Nokbox. We got our affairs in order.

Everything from which friends to call (Julie - she’ll let the neighbors know. Dan - he’ll tell the college friends…)
…to which subscriptions would need to be canceled (nice bonus $$$ because we promptly ditched some)
…to a checklist of holes we’d identified (updated will, etc.).

Fighting cancer still sucks.

But having our lives mapped out gives us both peace of mind + a clear view of our priorities.

Now I want to help you do the same.
(minus the crisis)

Get Your Financial House in order
(at least the paperwork)

  • Why it matters:

    In short: Bills don’t wait.

  • What we'll do together:

    Assemble all of your financial in into one - findable by you - place. Bank account, credit card, investments, debt, social security, retirement…

  • How we'll get it done

    - Kick off video explaining how to start.
    - Live Co-Working Sessions
    - Weekly prompts
    - Optional facebook group for asynchronous support & encouragement

And I have a secret ingredient….hypnosis

In our kick off call / video, we are going to use hypnosis to begin building the neural pathways for success.

Hypnosis is the secret sauce to move your unconscious from "ugh, I know I should do this..."
to "I'm actually doing it and it feels...okay? Good even?"

NokBox + Allie = Done

We’re taking the structure of the Nokbox (the product I used) —and adding what’s been missing all along support and community,
so you actually get it done this time.
No more good intentions collecting dust on a shelf.